{"id":893,"date":"2018-04-24T20:21:59","date_gmt":"2018-04-24T20:21:59","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/dynamicteamsolutions.org\/?p=893"},"modified":"2018-04-24T20:21:59","modified_gmt":"2018-04-24T20:21:59","slug":"got-conflict-find-speed-success","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/dev.dynamicteamsolutions.com\/index.php\/2018\/04\/24\/got-conflict-find-speed-success\/","title":{"rendered":"Got Conflict? Find the Speed to Success"},"content":{"rendered":"

A problem crops up between a small team within your organization. One person wants to jump on it immediately and seems unable to focus on anything else.\u00a0 Another member of the team however seems intent on waiting and doesn\u2019t want to discuss or engage about the situation.<\/p>\n

Tensions develop between the two. The one who wants action is indignant that the other won\u2019t engage to address the problem. The one who is letting it ride feels unfairly blamed, perhaps even bullied by his counterpart.\u00a0 Each complains about the other and members of the team start taking sides.\u00a0 Before long, the personality clash becomes a minefield, distracting everyone from the work that needs to be done.<\/p>\n

The Problem-Approach Spectrum<\/h3>\n

\"\"<\/a>Such clashes occur when confrontational and avoidant personalities face problems together. \u00a0The more stressful the problem or situation, the more polarizing their behaviors will seem.\u00a0 Under ordinary circumstances, people vary their approach depending on the situation.\u00a0 They may directly address one problem yet defer another to someone else or choose to ignore it completely.\u00a0 However, under stress, these same people will gravitate toward one end or the other of the problem-approach spectrum.<\/p>\n

Those with a conflict-confrontational personality are likely to obsess over the problem.\u00a0 When a problem hits their radar, it nags at them, begging for a response. They are unable to let it go until it is resolved.\u00a0 In the traditional fight or flight response to danger (or stress), their response is fight.\u00a0 Their need for an instant solution though can be short-sighted, as it may lead to quick, stopgap decisions instead of reaching the best long-term solution.<\/p>\n

Those with conflict-avoidant personalities are pulled in the opposite direction.\u00a0 They tend to wait and observe the problem \u2013 pondering solutions and the necessity of action.\u00a0 Their fight or flight response is flight.\u00a0 Their halted response however, allows the problem to intensify and may yield earlier options for resolution obsolete or ineffective.<\/p>\n

The Spectrum In Between<\/h3>\n

The key to dealing with these extreme personality types is in recognizing that\u2019s what they are: extreme ends of a full spectrum.\u00a0 Within the spectrum though, we find a wide range of essential tools for successful problem-solving, even when the parties involved have differing tendencies.<\/p>\n

Look at the area between the center of the spectrum and the confrontational extreme and you\u2019ll find those with a results-oriented style that looks to resolve problems as they emerge. Explore the area between the center of the spectrum and the avoidant extreme and you\u2019ll find those with an analytical style that helps you achieve well thought out solutions. You need both styles, working together, to get optimal results.\u00a0 The problem is when people swing out to extremes, losing sight of the advantages the other one brings.<\/p>\n

Ultimately, different ends of the spectrum are complementary rather than mutually exclusive. They bring a larger array of tools together to solve problems: the patient consideration of details on one end, and the push for results on the other. The more you can create a balance that helps your employees see the value that all styles across the spectrum offer, the better your organization can incorporate the benefits of both approaches.<\/p>\n

Much conflict in organizations \u2013 such as the clash of extremes described above \u2013 is avoidable. When you\u2019re immersed in the day-to-day tasks needed to run your part of your organization, though, recognizing and dealing with the pitfalls that can cause those avoidable conflicts is not always obvious.<\/p>\n

We specialize in developing strong teams and leaders – and supporting conflict awareness and understanding is one of our favorite approaches.\u00a0 Let us know if we can help your teams learn to effectively apply all the available problem-solving tools they possess.\u00a0 We aim, to keep your organization running its best.<\/p>\n

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